"The point at which I realized, was the point at which Cultural Adaptation claimed to me a thing about dath ilan's culture that was impossible to the point of plain absurdity, centered on you personally."
"The rule that Cultural Adaptation (dath ilan) claimed to me was this: You don't tell Merrin that she's special, or act around her like she runs in 7th-circle company. You pretend that she is just another completely normal person. It is not a rule for talking to young people, or a rule for men talking to women, it was a rule about Merrin specifically."
"Need I remark on exactly how special and famous you would need to be, before a culture -- that by your accounts is not divided into #countries#(*), and spans an entire planet of a billion living people -- would have a special rule like that about you particularly, the way that a #country# has rules about how to address its #Queen#(**)."
"Were you special enough, were you important enough, that a planet or even a single #country# would have invented a universal conspiracy about everyone pretending that you were a very normal person and not at all special?"
"I liked to tease my Merrin, the real Merrin, about how I thought she had the potential for greatness someday. But she wasn't that special already. And in your stories, neither were you."
"Cultural Adaptation is screaming at me, right now, that I was absolutely not supposed to tell you that this rule existed. Would it be remotely realistic, in real life, for such a conspiracy to be so universally adhered-to that nobody ever told you before now? #Governments# can enforce that kind of rule successfully, with extreme enough penalties for violating it. But there would need to be a strong motivation for the Governance you remember to do that. It would not be done as a joke or as your personal convenience."
"Dath ilan is not real. It, or rather your memory of it, is a shadow of your fantasies -- your personal dreamworld to tempt you, except that you cannot live there, only remember it. To be more exact, dath ilan is a shadow and projection of the original Merrin. There is rare magic like that, and I had already heard of the general category; the difference in this [Outer God]'s work lies in its completeness and its scale."
(*) Taldane: Medium-sized cities that control large amounts of surrounding countryside and act as top-level authorities instead of answering to a planetary Governance.
(**) Taldane: Female sorta-unilateral sorta-dictator of a #country#.