...there isn't really a standard entry in his coding system for "willingness to compromise" because he hadn't thought of this as something that enough people varied in how much they had, and varied in how much they wanted, to form part of an idealized relationship pattern to compute.  There's an entry for "weak-mindedness" for the sort of person who likes a minion who's easily bossed around?  And separately sexual submissiveness, which some people don't realize is not the same thing at all?

...there isn't really a standard entry in his coding system for "willingness to compromise" because he hadn't thought of this as something that enough people had to variable degrees, and varied in how much they wanted, to form part of an idealized relationship pattern to compute.  There's an entry for "weak-mindedness" for the sort of person who likes a minion who's easily bossed around?  And separately sexual submissiveness, which some people don't realize is not the same thing at all?