"Essentially yes.  Pure dominant, male.  Not every sub wants that, and not every switch is adorably inadequate, but it's rare enough."

"With longer-term relationships I'm careful not to modify or inhibit my natural alienness about what feels like the obvious right thing to say or do; and to many subs that reads as a cruelty that some subs fall in love with, which leads into a lot of romantic tension ending in disaster.  So I'm also not completely hopeless when it comes to boosting someone's lightline charging."

"Essentially yes.  Pure dominant, male.  Not every sub wants that, and not every switch here is adorably inadequate, but it's rare enough that they'll bring the tokens and get me off even if they can't get off themselves."

"With longer-term relationships I'm careful not to modify or inhibit my natural alienness about what feels like the obvious right thing to say or do; and to many subs that reads as a cruelty that some subs fall in love with, which leads into a lot of romantic tension ending in disaster.  So I'm also not completely hopeless when it comes to boosting someone's lightline charging."