Otolmens has NOT noticed Milani trying to destroy the world, or other gods being nice to Milani because otherwise Milani will destroy the world. While Otolmens did not understand everything from Nethys's vision, Otolmens does gather that Milani was doing COMPLICATED THINGS to REDUCE the damage from the anomaly that Abadar wouldn't let Her just squish, and therefore Otolmens is LESS ANNOYED WITH MILANI THAN MOST OTHER GODS INVOLVED.
Milani also helped Otolmens negotiate with Asmodeus about paying for an Anomaly Containment Installation. Which then FAILED to actually contain the anomaly, presumably on account of Asmodeus TRICKING Otolmens in some way, such as by not instructing His followers to TRY HARD ENOUGH.
