"GROW THE FUCK UP, PILAR.  Use decision theory instead of just letting other people with decision theory use you."

"GROW THE FUCK UP, PILAR.  Use decision theory instead of just letting other people with decision theory use you.  Stop whining about being given chances to advance your own interests just because they're not simple."

"GROW THE FUCK UP, PILAR.  Use decision theory instead of just letting other people with decision theory use you.  Stop whining about being given chances to advance your own interests just because they're not simple and don't let you do whatever you feel like."

"GROW THE FUCK UP, PILAR.  Use decision theory instead of just letting other people with decision theory use you.  Stop whining about being given chances to advance your own interests just because they're not simple and don't let you do whatever you feel like.  And also quit complaining if the other grownups here want you to behave like a grownup too, someone who pursues her own decision-theoretically-nonsimple interests instead of having to be pushed into that every time."

"GROW THE FUCK UP, PILAR.  Use decision theory instead of just letting other agents with better decision theory use you.  Stop whining about being given chances to advance your own interests just because they're not simple and don't let you do whatever you feel like.  And also quit complaining if the other grownups here want you to behave like a grownup too, someone who pursues her own decision-theoretically-nonsimple interests instead of having to be pushed into that every time."