Dear Abrogail,
There's a charming young wizard of my acquaintance who possesses an astonishing array of useful skills and talents, not to mention a pleasing temperament, and I deeply desire to make him mine forever.
Unfortunately, he's decided to throw every resource he can muster into a war of vengeance with a terrifyingly powerful force beyond even his abilities, and I haven't been able to talk him out of it. I'm confident that if he continues it's going to get him killed, probably permanently. If I abandon him I'll lose him as an asset, I don't control him securely enough to make him reconsider, and I don't want him dead.
Do you have any suggestions about ways to deter him from his hopeless war without either driving him away or allowing him to destroy himself?
Sincerely,
C.L.