Dear Levrolurment:
You're never, ever going to understand humans and need to stop trying. Events on this project are a classical symptom of why non-Asmodean societies can never get anything done: There needs to be a stronger power who dominates your whole project, and punishes anyone who tries to mate on the job. If nobody on your project has the power to do this, and it's too late to add somebody with that power, then your project is doomed. Everywhere that isn't ruled by fire and lash is just an endless fleshy desert of humans making faces at each other instead of doing any work.