Your Intelligence is at least 14, which I've heard is considered the threshold for where it's worth trying to become a wizard.
I asked the elder adult here what to do about that, if I wanted to do something about that. She thought I should give the Temple of the All-Seeing-Eye fifty gold pieces to pay for initial wizard lessons, and an additional gold to have - somebody, I think maybe your neighbor, watch your children. If I did that, and you did successfully become a wizard, I'd want you to pay that on to three other women, in time, when and if you'd earned say at least 1000gp total of your own from being a wizard; and ask those three for that same promise.
Is that something you'd want?