"I assume your objection isn't just to my numbers and that it should be WIS 16 or INT 18 instead?  Though, in my grimdark experience, women with INT 18 are capable of pulling some dreadfully advanced social shit of their own... though I guess she had a +4 intelligence headband by the time she was doing the more advanced plots, in retrospect, and that's just the headband I knew about... anyways, if we set the numbers much higher, like 20 WIS, or 22 INT, does that change your estimate of whether being allowed to marry foreigners is good for the woman?"

"I assume your objection isn't just to my numbers and that it should be WIS 16 or INT 18 instead?  Though, in my grimdark experience, women with INT 18 are capable of pulling some dreadfully advanced social shit of their own... though I guess she had a +4 intelligence headband by the time she was doing the more advanced plots, in retrospect, and that's just the headband I knew about... anyways, if we set the numbers much higher, like 20 WIS, or 22 INT, does that change your intuitive estimate of whether being allowed to marry foreigners is good for the woman?"