"Suppose somebody proposed that a better version of this policy would let women marry foreign husbands if they wanted, if the woman showed Intelligence above 16 to Detect Thoughts or Wisdom above 14 to Detect Anxieties, in which case they're probably able to figure out for themselves how to not be deceived by the ruffles.  Would you say that's a better or worse version of the policy?"

"Suppose somebody proposed that a better version of this policy would let women marry foreign husbands if they wanted, if the woman showed Intelligence above 16 to Detect Thoughts or Wisdom above 14 to Detect Anxieties, in which case she's probably able to figure out for herself how to not be deceived by the ruffles.  Would you say that's a better or worse version of the policy?"