"Let people escape.  Consider that your personal favorite system does not work for everyone.  There are always weirdos and they need to have a right to exist.  Build an exception handler, a way for weird things to not be total errors inside the system.  That's step one.  Any woman who wants it can go get herself registered as Not In The System, and maybe that means she can never have a husband inside Osirion, any man who wants to date her maybe has to go get registered as Not In The System and can never have a wife from inside the system, fine.  You can protect your closed system of people for whom that system works, they have a right not to be around people who aren't part of the system.  But if they don't want to be inside the system, let them out."

"Let people escape.  Consider that your personal favorite system does not work for everyone.  There are always weirdos and they need to have a right to exist.  Build an exception handler, a way for weird things to not be total errors inside the system.  That's step one.  Any woman who wants it can go get herself registered as Not In The System, and maybe that means she can never have a husband inside Osirion, any man who wants to date her maybe has to go get registered as Not In The System and can never have a wife from inside the system, fine.  You can protect your closed system of people for whom that system works, they have a right not to be around people who aren't part of the system.  But if someone doesn't want to be inside the system, let them out."

"Let people escape.  Consider that your personal favorite system does not work for everyone.  There are always weirdos and they need to have a right to exist.  Build an exception handler - a way for weird things to not be total errors inside the system - into your region's clever regulations.  That's step one.  Any woman who wants it can go get herself registered as Not In The System, and maybe that means she can never have a husband inside Osirion, any man who wants to date her maybe has to go get registered as Not In The System and can never have a wife from inside the system, fine.  You can protect your closed system of people for whom that system works, they have a right not to be around people who aren't part of the system.  But if someone doesn't want to be inside the system, let them out."

"Let people escape.  Consider that your personal favorite system does not work for everyone.  There are always weirdos and they need to have a right to exist.  Build an exception handler - a way for weird things to not be total errors inside the system - into your region's clever regulations.  That's step one.  Any woman who wants it can go get herself registered as Not In The System, and maybe that means she can never have a husband inside Osirion, any man who wants to date her maybe has to go get registered as Not In The System and can never have a wife from inside the system, fine.  You can protect your closed system of people for whom that system works, they have a right not to be around people who aren't part of their favorite system.  But if someone doesn't want to be inside the system, let them out."