"Frankly you strike me, not honestly you strike me. Dath ilani don't lie often enough that they need to say when they're being honest, but they conceal things often enough to say when they're being frank."
"Women here are immune to concerns about other people getting upset with them, or won't try to hide or alter their apparent feelings around people, unless married to them? That sounds like the literal opposite of how I think things should work."