"By which you mean:  It's private and embarrassing and you'd rather it not be the case, as it plainly is, that this is a useful piece of data for me, because so long as it isn't important, you won't need to decide whether keeping it private is worth keeping me ignorant of important data."

"By which you mean:  It's private and embarrassing and you'd rather it not be the case, as it plainly is, that this is a useful piece of data for me, because so long as it isn't important, you won't need to decide whether keeping it private is worth keeping me ignorant of important data."

"Which, to be clear, is your decision, and potentially a valid one.  I'm not telling you to care about what data I want, at all, let alone care about it more than your privacy.  But make the decision consciously, in a way that reflects however much you actually do care, if you want to live up to the standard of an ordinary dath ilani never mind Keepers."

"By which you mean:  It's private and embarrassing and you'd rather it not be the case, as it plainly is, that this is a useful piece of data for me, because so long as it isn't important, you won't need to decide whether keeping it private outweighs keeping me ignorant of data I'd find useful."

"Which, to be clear, is your decision, and potentially a valid one.  I'm not telling you to care about what data I want, at all, let alone care about it more than your privacy.  But make the decision consciously, in a way that reflects however much you actually do care, if you want to live up to the standard of an ordinary dath ilani never mind Keepers."