"I mean, presumably Lady Avaricia knows who she is, what with her having lived that whole life from the inside and all.  Not having a word for a category to categorize yourself with, or not knowing there are other people like you, isn't the same as not knowing what you are.  Asmodia didn't have a word for 'asexual' or 'demisexual', but she knew that she'd only felt a couple of flashes of possible sexual attraction over the course of her life."

"I mean, presumably Lady Avaricia knows who she is, what with her having lived that whole life from the inside and all.  Not having a word for a category to categorize yourself with, or not knowing the statistical commonality of other people resembling you in some dimension, isn't the same as not knowing what you are.  Asmodia didn't have a word for 'asexual' or 'demisexual', but she knew that she'd only felt a couple of flashes of possible sexual attraction over the course of her life."