"I mean... as far as I know none of that is a secret around here? It doesn't seem like the sort of thing that would be a secret? I don't have enough Evil in me myself that I'd want to hurt a man in bed or be hurt by him, but I know what whips look like and what they do, or an Acid Splash cantrip if you wanted to go more serious than that on the relationship scale. It doesn't seem like anything from a world without healing spells should be able to shock me."
(Ione's voice remains totally cheerful while she says all this!)