"We can always make our own 'eroLARP' with our own rules for it, if that's what we both want.  I mean, the reason why that's part of the pattern in the first place is that it's something a lot of people would want for ordinary reasons, that there's somebody in the pattern who they can talk to without worrying about whether that's leading to sex."

"The most common outcome in Civilization is for asexuals to marry each other - to the point where it's an issue with respect to assortative mating prevention - but there's more female than male asexuals, so the second most common outcome for a female asexual who wants a stable heterosexual relationship is that she finds a man who can manage multiple relationships, who can have enough sex for him with other women, but he could still use additional cuddles or emotional support or everything else that isn't about sex."

"We can always make our own 'eroLARP' with our own rules for it, if that's what we both want.  I mean, the reason why that's part of the pattern in the first place is that it's something a lot of people would want for ordinary reasons, that there's somebody in the pattern who they can talk to without worrying about whether that's leading to sex."

"The most common outcome in Civilization is for asexuals to marry each other - to the point where it's an issue with respect to assortative mating prevention - but there's more female than male asexuals, so the second most common outcome for a female asexual who wants a stable heterosexual relationship is that she finds a man who can manage multiple relationships, who can have enough sex for himself with other women, but he could still use additional cuddles or emotional support or everything else that isn't about sex."