She needs to lie; there's no time for Sevar to be brought up to speed if she's not in-loop already, she'll use the lie that Sevar already authorized it doesn't completely not fit.  "Honestly what I'm trying to figure out right now is actually more like - if hypothetically I say something like, I've ever felt attraction to a boy one time, or even a girl one time, after I'd known them for a while, even if nothing happened there because they didn't want me, so I could maybe possibly feel that for you eventually it would just take a while, that means I don't get any superpowers.  So I'd be thinking, maybe it wasn't real attraction and I don't even know what that would actually feel like, because, if it wasn't real attraction, I can maybe still be the asexual and get whatever nice things asexuals get when they're part of a pattern like the one you describe.  Does dath ilan have any way to tell for certain whether somebody is asexual?"

She needs to lie; there's no time for Sevar to be brought up to speed if she's not in-loop already, she'll use the lie that Sevar already authorized it doesn't completely not fit.  "What I'm trying to figure out right now is actually more like - if hypothetically I say something like, I've ever felt attraction to a boy one time, or even a girl one time, after I'd known them for a while, even if nothing happened there because they didn't want me, so I could maybe possibly feel that for you eventually it would just take a while, that means I don't get any superpowers.  So I'd be thinking, maybe it wasn't real attraction and I don't even know what that would actually feel like, because, if it wasn't real attraction, I can maybe still be the asexual and get whatever nice things asexuals get when they're part of a pattern like the one you describe.  Does dath ilan have any way to tell for certain whether somebody is asexual?"

She needs to lie; there's no time for Sevar to be brought up to speed if she's not in-loop already, she'll use the lie that Sevar already authorized it doesn't completely not fit.  "What I'm trying to figure out right now is actually more like - if hypothetically I say something like, I've ever felt attraction to a boy one time, or a girl one time, even if nothing happened there because they didn't want me, so I could maybe possibly feel that for you, that means I don't get any superpowers.  So I'd be thinking, maybe it wasn't real attraction and I don't even know what that would actually feel like, because, if it wasn't real attraction, I can maybe still be the asexual and get whatever nice things asexuals get when they're part of a pattern like the one you describe.  Does dath ilan have any way to tell for certain whether somebody is asexual?"