"It's not... generally advised to tell your submissive that you're having trouble regarding her as enough an adult to make decisions, but I expect the consequence is that she'll probably be upset and definitely turned off and in the worst case she will think a little worse of you.  I don't think she'll walk out; but if you're afraid of that possibility, I would point out that she would very much like to have that option be removed from herself, and never again have to fear that you'll be afraid of her walking out and not say things to her.  She wants you to be able to think about her the way you'd think if you weren't ever afraid she'd leave you."

"It's not... generally advised to tell a submissive like Sevar that you're having trouble regarding her as enough of an adult to make decisions, but I expect the consequence is that she'll probably be upset and definitely turned off and in the worst case she will think a little worse of you."

"I don't think she'll walk out.  If you're afraid of that possibility, I would point out that she would very much like to have that option be removed from herself, and never again have to fear that you'll be afraid of her walking out and not say things to her.  She wants you to be able to think about her the way you'd think if you weren't ever afraid she'd leave you."