"First of all, that is itself something you do not make a submissive do, especially one like Sevar. You don't make her spell out exactly what you could do to take her, in a way that makes it clear you haven't thought of that yourself and would never think of that yourself. That makes it feel fake to her, like the whole thing is pretend."
"Second of all, I am under the perhaps mistaken impression that she tried to lead you to those answers and you did not listen, perhaps because she was too close to your own age and not wearing a sufficiently impressive-looking intelligence headband."