"I'm about ready to sleep. Want me to let you out of -"
"See, if I wasn't this exhausted, I'd have noticed faster that I'm not supposed to ask you that. But if I've got to decide - then I need additional information, right, that's why my brain doesn't want to decide right away - are there likely to be any Sevar-needs-a-toilet-first consequences if I decide to go to sleep snuggling you like this? If a more experienced thing-I-am would know to tell you to give me other information first, tell me those questions."