"Oh, I'm not saying she'll be surprising because she has that fetish, the surprising thing about her will be something that even someone from Golarion would find shocking, but she'll also have that fetish, which is very common here and isn't surprising at all if you're not me."
"I mean, assuming the basic premise here is true, which, it hopefully isn't... it would be a whole lot easier to nope the shit out of that hypothesis if not, you know, air-traveling-machine crash, surviving my own True Death and all that."
"I'm sorry, I probably shouldn't be talking about this in front of you at all. If it's true there's definitely nothing you can do about it until I've figured more things out, unless that 'trope' is being specifically subverted. It would be - a puzzle thrown at a dath ilani, not at someone from Golarion." He's probably just alarming her more at this point, isn't he. This is why the usual convention says that the NPCs in a meta-eroLARP-eroLARP can't hear you talk about the layer-0 eroLARP until you've made more progress with them.